The problem of fathers and children disturbs the soul of every loving family. Parents ask a dumb question: "Children, how to educate you in the right way?". Everyone wants their first-born to become the standard of not only beauty but also of the mind. Previously, it was generally popular to follow the advice of a wise grandmother, but the world does not stand still, and many young mothers are looking for modern answers to this eternal question. The abundance of resources for the proper education of the child has overwhelmed all the shelves of bookstores, but the question still remains open: "How do you still need to educate children and what should they be taught from childhood?". We will work on this issue today.
The child lives by imitation, and first of all it is necessary to start with yourself. Look at yourself from the outside and answer honestly the following questions: "And what example am I for my child? What good can I teach him by my example? ". This will clarify the situation to you and will make it clear what else you should work on. Think about what your children would like to see you, how to cultivate only good traits in them. Become a good example for them to follow! Results will not keep you waiting.
The main point of effective child education is the presence of a cohesive, happy and full-fledged family. All that is required of you is to save not only your union with your spouse, but also constantly nourish your marriage with love, mutual understanding, trust and, of course, respect for each other. Together you will create a warm atmosphere for your child at home, an ideal family, mutual support, filling the house with an aura of love and peace of mind. Correct education of children is the key to the successful future of your baby. Any child wants to see his parents happy and loving. In such a house you want to come back again and again. The effect of unity will help your child build his ideal family, for you, his parents, will become an example for him.
Never push on the child and do not bend the stick. It is very important that he feels his own importance and realization. We must respect the opinion of the child, even if he is six and "he does not know anything about life yet." You are his main adviser, you are his support, you are his most dear and loving person. And it is from you he is waiting for praise. Give him the opportunity to feel like an adult, and you will never have problems with the transitional age of the child. All they want is to establish themselves and do everything in an adult way. Raising a son is a difficult task. But when you recognize him as an adult, he simply will not have to go against you, proving his right to live an adult life.
Children, children. How to educate you? Another tip - praise and praise again. Just do not bend the stick, because praise should be deserved and honest. It is necessary to do so that a person wants to do something else with pleasure on a subconscious level. This will require the power of a kind word. If you praised your baby, then you have done a little more fun, more joyful, kind, and grateful. For the sake of praise, every person is ready for good deeds. Agree, if you are praised at work, your wings grow and you want to do something better and better in the next time. This is because you were noticed, your work was properly evaluated. Accordingly, you are recognized.
Remember that your treasure is your children. How to raise them is not a problem. The main thing - follow your maternal instincts, and they will prompt the right decisions. Good luck to you, dear moms!