A teenager is a special system of values
A teenager is not just a word for teenager 13-19 years old, it's a whole culture and system of values, is inextricably coupled with certain problems and social phobias. The term teenager has removed us from the English language. The origin of the word is associated with the suffix "teen" numerals between 13 and 19, e.g. thirteen, fourteen, etc. Psychologists consider this period in a person's life the most critical and complex. Usually young Teens are highly susceptible to a variety of social phobias.
Often they form "imaginary ugliness syndrome". Thus teenagers comparing themselves with their idols, find his appearance unusual, inappropriate common ideals and even ugly. These thoughts often cause them suffering every day reinforcing the belief in his inferiority. Teenagers are very vulnerable, especially when it comes to their appearance. Sidelong glances, the whispering abruptly cut short the conversation. Teenager this all takes very much to heart, though trying not to show my emotions. But at the same time (a paradox!) teenagers love to pose and be photographed. Photos teen girls become the subject of a lively discussion, to peers.
A teenager is someone who tries new things and is looking for a foothold in life, builds relationships with the opposite sex, their parents and friends. Desire for self-determination of a teenager often leads him into a variety of subcultural currents. He adopts the values, attitudes, aims to stand out externally by a non-standard hairstyles, fashionable clothes and an abundance of cosmetics (girls).
Teenage currents are inextricably linked with fashion. Vividly different youth groups differenciate among themselves through clothes: loose trousers and a spacious robes representatives of hip-hop culture, black cloaks and heavy military boots with high lacing adherents of the Gothic style. Adults so odious vestments puzzling and criticism. Parents and then teach your growing child, are advised to "stop dressing like a clown" and "get smart". In turn, the offspring of 14-15 years aggressively respond to such criticism and asking parents "do not meddle in their lives."
As a rule, Teens with adults rarely share their problems, contrasting myself to them. They prefer to spend their free time either in the company of their own kind, or alone in his room.
For more adult — student — stage teenagers are less prone to depression and seclusion. They are open and inquisitive. At the age of 17-19 years a lot of new Hobbies and acquaintances. This is the era of creativity and bold experiments.
Teenager is a state of mind, and the age range here is very conditional. Behave the can and 11, and 20 years. No matter what, it is a wonderful stage in a person's life: then comes the first love, new friends that will remain for many years, formed life the ideals and aspirations of young people. It is not necessary to avoid all problems, because their solution is an important step towards the maturation and formation of personality. Pass this way every human should. Parents make the mistake of grossly interfering in the child's life at this stage of its development. If they want to maintain good relations with him, all they can do is be a friend and Advisor, but not head or commander.