Dad can! What is the role of father for a child
On June 19 around the world are celebrating fathers Day. And let this holiday has not yet become official in our country, but he's definitely very close to each family. Let's talk about how he is the best dad in the world.
Time to get off the couch and slams the laptop
Everyone knows that the father needs the child no less than the mother. Children just need friendship, love and approval of the Pope. Great if the guys have the opportunity to be with his father for a long time, to feel his tenderness, care, to give him something help. But, unfortunately, often the great desire of parents after returning from work is to eat and stretch out in front of the TV.
For any father, it is important to understand that the child is very appreciate communication with him, especially if dad is a busy man. If the parent is feeling it, then it will be much more willing to spend time with the baby, overcoming your fatigue.
Puts above all the child's wishes
Dad is a native person who values personal choice and not criticize. Sometimes the father even before the baby sees his son as a future player. And from the earliest years of the head of the family writes in the baby section of the football constantly looks at him with matches, train the child at home. But the result may be different. For example, the boy simply can not get something in football. In this situation, the pastime of the son with the father becomes a burden to both. And that can't happen, therefore you should be able to listen to the offspring.
Constant criticism from the father will lead to the fact that the child will not get pleasure from the game. Besides, father will cause the child to consider himself a loser. Approval from the Pope is much more important than censure. Over time, perhaps the boy will be involved in sports activities, you just have to give him time. Well, when the son offers to the head of the family to play football – this will be fun for both.
Role model and true friend
The boy will be a man, watching a man in whom he feels confidence and reliability. It can be older friends, grandpa, brothers. And maybe father. Constantly bumping into reproaches from the Pope, the child will not be perceived as a role model. Often, these children are drawn closer to her mother, perceiving her interests and behavior.
When the father seeks to make the son a real man, no need to lash out at the child when he whines, make it to work on the things in which he sees himself. The Pope is the man who must not shame your baby if he is playing in the girls ' game. Father and son should have secrets, spend time alone with each other, for example fishing. Then the child will develop the stereotype of the "dad is your boyfriend."
Dad is a standard for my daughter
The girl dad need no less than the boy. In the relationship of the baby with the father there is a significant difference, which many people do not always see the need. The boy is looking in the parent's example to follow, and the girl support and the person that approval gives confidence. When a girl requires from the father of the Council, you need a sensitive approach to this issue and to help the girl with a particular choice strength of the option, which originally, like the child. Thus, the Pope praised the gut girls.
Then the daughter will get older, and the father will be obliged to show her that he values her opinion in any matters. Not be amiss to ask advice from his daughter, for example, where would the whole family go on the weekend. It will take some time, and your girl will start to make friends with boys. It is inevitable, therefore, it is important loyal to her friend, even if the father is sure that the guy's daughter not a couple. Best quality father daughter will look for in your man.
A dad's hope and protection from all dangers. It can save you from excessive guardianship mother, to protect from the dangerous outside world and the evils associated with inner feelings and fears of the child. Of course, now, in our world, women predominate in most areas of forming the personality. Mom, of course, can teach children many things: integrity, prudence, accuracy, and determination. This list can be very long. But one of the weaker sex will never be able to be a man to be a father. Dad!