Dad can do it! What role does the father play for the child?
On June 19, the world celebrates the Pope's Day. And let this holiday has not yet become official in our country, but it is exactly very close to each family. Let's talk about what he is - the best father in the world.
Rises from the sofa in time and slams the laptop
Everyone knows perfectly well that a father needs a child no less than a mother. Children just need friendship, love and approval of the pope. It's great if the guys have the opportunity to be with the father for a long time, to feel his caress, caring, to give him some help. But, unfortunately, most often the greatest desire of parents after returning from work is to eat and stretch out in front of the TV.
For any father, it is important to understand that the child is very appreciative of communicating with him, especially if the pope is a very busy person. If the parent feels it, then he will have much more desire to spend time with the baby, overcoming his fatigue.
Puts above the wishes of the child
The pope is a native person who values his personal choice and does not criticize. It happens that the father even before the birth of the child sees in the son of the future football player. And from the earliest years the head of the family writes the kid in the football section, constantly looks through matches with him, trains the child at home. But the result can be different. For example, a boy just can not get something in football. In such a situation, the pastime of the son with the father becomes a burden to both. And this should not be allowed, so you need to be able to listen to the offspring.
Constant criticism from the father will lead to the fact that the child will not get pleasure from the game. Moreover, the father will force the child to consider himself a failure. Approval from the pope is more important than censure. Over time, perhaps, the boy will get involved in sports, you just need to give him time. Well, when it is the son who offers the head of the family to play football - this will serve as entertainment for both.
An example to follow and a true friend
The boy will feel like a man, watching the person in whom he feels confident and reliable. They can be older friends, grandfather, brothers. And maybe my father. Constantly bumping into reproaches on the part of the pope, the child will not perceive it as an example for imitation. Often such children are drawn closer to their mother, perceiving her interests and behavior.
When a father tries to make a real man out of a son, he does not need to attack the child when he whimpers, to force him to work on things in which he does not see himself. Dad - this is the person who should not shame the baby, if he plays in girly games. Father and son must have their secrets, spend time alone with each other, for example, on fishing. Then the child will have a stereotype of "Dad - his boyfriend."
Dad is a benchmark for daughter
The girl needs Dad no less than the boy. In the relationship of the baby with the father there is a significant difference, in which many people do not always see the need. The boy is looking for an example in the parent for imitation, and the girl is the support and the person whose approval gives confidence. When a girl requires advice from her father, it is necessary to approach this question with awe and help the baby with this or that choice, approving the option that the child himself initially likes. In this way, the pope will praise the girl's inner flair.
Then the daughter will be older, and the father will have to show her that he appreciates her opinion on any issues. It is not superfluous to ask advice from her daughter, for example, about where to go to the whole family on weekends. There will be a little more time, and your girl will start making friends with the boys. This is inevitable, so it's important to be loyal to her friend, even if the father is sure that the guy's daughter is not a couple. The best qualities of a father's daughter will be in her chosen one.
The pope is the hope and protection from all dangers. He can protect himself from the excessive care of his mother, protect him from the dangerous external world and the misfortunes that are associated with the inner experiences and fears of the child. Of course, now in our world women predominate in most spheres that shape the personality. Mom, of course, can teach a child a lot: honesty, prudence, accuracy, purposefulness. This list can be very long. But one weak sex can never - be a man, be a father. Dad can!