When the difficult age comes
Adolescents are gentle and aggressive at the same time. A difficult age usually starts at age 13. When this period ends - it's hard to say unequivocally. Everything depends on the person, her attitude and attitude. The peak of rebellion falls on the period from 15 to 17 years. It is caused by a change in the psychological background of adolescents.
A difficult age is a synonym for a transitional age. Teenagers cease to consider themselves to be children, they begin to feel that they are adults and self-sufficient people. Rebellion is due to the fact that parents, more often than not, still see children in them. Most conflicts are based on endless prohibitions and disagreements with them. If you want to prohibit something, it is better to present it in the form of advice or request. Try to find for the child another hobby, which will become a substitute for what you want to prohibit.
The most difficult age is during puberty. It changes not only the psychological background of the personality, but also its body. According to statistics, over the past five years the age of entering into the first intimate relationship reached 14 years. These are the consequences of a difficult transition period.
In most cases, conversations on intimate topics do not bring positive results. How to behave to parents? First, do not take the child as a child. If a teenager considers himself to be an adult, then he must be treated accordingly. This applies not only to conversations, but also to the requirements for it. Just do not do it with pathos and ridicule. Do not bring a child to a conflict. Secondly, it is worth paying more attention to what your child is fond of, with whom he communicates, where it happens. Perhaps in some ways your interests will coincide. This will help to unite. A difficult age is so because the teenager feels himself to be an unrecognized, unrecognized genius. Try to understand it. Or at least pretend that you understand. But do not overdo it. Adolescents are especially keenly aware of falsehood.
A difficult adolescent age is accompanied by the development of sexuality. It is important to notice this point to parents. What for? In time to develop a child's self-esteem, normal self-esteem and taste. The latter is important. If there is a taste, then the teenager will never commit rash acts. For example, drink a cheap drink and indulge in the first oncoming intimate joys.
A difficult age is, of course, a period of rebellion against parents and their foundations. Nevertheless, teenagers can always be reached. If you know how to interest them, you can always avoid conflicts. To indulge in whims? In moderation. If the whim is reasonably explained, then it is possible to meet halfway. It is important that there is always understanding in the house. Talk to the child more often, discuss his problems (even if they are not serious, in your opinion), be interested in his affairs. The work of study is not all that should interest you. Rebellion is due to misunderstanding. If you love your child, then give him as much attention as possible.