When it's a difficult age
Teens are tender and aggressive at the same time. Hard age usually starts from the age of 13. When does this period — it's hard to say for sure. It all depends on the personality, its world view and attitudes of others. The peak of the rebellion is between 15 to 17 years. This is due to the change in the psychological background of adolescents.
Hard age is synonymous with adolescence. Teenagers no longer consider themselves children, they begin to feel that they are adults and self-sufficient people. Rebellion are due to the fact that parents often still see them as children. Most conflicts occur because of the endless prohibitions and disagreements with them. If you want to prohibit something, it is better to present it in the form of advice or requests. Try to find the child another passion that will be replacing that you want to ban.
The most difficult age to the period of puberty. Changing not only the psychological background of the individual, but also her body. According to statistics, over the past five years, the age of first sexual relationship was 14 years. It is the consequences of the difficult transition period.
In most cases the conversation on intimate topics do not bring positive results. How to behave parents? First, do not take the child child. If a teenager finds herself an adult, and treat it accordingly. This applies not only to conversations but also requirements. Only no need to do so with pathos and mockery. Do not call the child to the conflict. Secondly, it is necessary to pay more attention to what your child enjoys, with whom, where it happens. Maybe your interests will coincide. This will help to unite. Hard age is such because the teenager feels misunderstood, unrecognized genius. Try to understand him. Or at least to pretend that you understand. But do not overdo it. Adolescents are particularly sensitive to hypocrisy.
A difficult adolescence is accompanied by the development of sexuality. It is important to note this point, parents. Why? In order to develop a child's self-esteem, normal self-esteem and taste. The last important. If you will attend the taste, the teen will never commit rash acts. For example, drinking cheap alcohol and to surrender to the first comer with intimate pleasures.
Hard age is, of course, the period of rebellion against parents and their foundations. However, with teenagers you can always negotiate. If you know how to motivate them, it is always possible to avoid conflicts. Whether to indulge the whims? In moderation. If the whim is due to reasonable, then we can go forward. It is important that the house always reigned understanding. Talk often with your child, discuss his problem (even frivolous, in your opinion), be interested in his Affairs. The case study is not all that you need to concern yourself. Rebellion occurs because of misunderstanding. If you love your child, give him as much attention as possible.