The children's song describes the restlessness of the kids in about the following words: he must jump everywhere, touch everything, kick with his feet, otherwise he will explode, fuck-baba! It is common knowledge that a child must move. But even this is the limit when a kid can not sit quietly and listen to a fairy tale, paint, play a game in the sandbox, talk with a grandmother, mother or brother. Some children do not get it. If relatives manage to seat such a troubled child, it will manage to twist its head, swing its feet, waving arms and still can not concentrate on the right thing. These are hyperactive children. What should parents do to help them cope with their own restlessness?
Most importantly, you need to understand that your baby is not guilty of anything. It is not specially twisted and twisted. This is his problem, and on the part of adults he needs help, and not in endless bans and punishments. Education of a hyperactive child requires a special approach from parents: they do not struggle with the energy of their son or daughter, but direct it in the right direction. It's hard work, but it's rewarded. It is important to start acting as soon as possible, and not expect the notorious "outgrowth". Probably, the help of the expert of the neuropathologist or the psychologist is required.
Activity, activity and once again activity is what the hyperactive children demand. What should parents do if they are accustomed to a more peaceful way of life? Reconstruct! The whole family can start doing morning exercises, go on foot or bike trips, get carried away by some kind of sport. If this is not enough, the sports section will come to the rescue, dancing. Thus, excess energy will find its way out, sleep will normalize. But this does not solve all the difficulties of a hyperactive child.
Lack of attention and inability to concentrate are more serious problems experienced by hyperactive children. What to do with it? Most experts say that these qualities need to be developed. Mom can give time every day for exercises that require more perseverance. It is not easy to find such exercises, but, trying different activities, from modeling and drawing to knitting, you can find what the kid likes. Gradually increasing the time of training, you will help to develop perseverance. It is essential to start such forms of work with a small amount of time, gradually increasing it. It is necessary to spend physical education in breaks to give the child a discharge.
In the garden and school, in another unfamiliar environment, the difficulties faced by hyperactive children are inevitable. What to do to help the child caregivers and teachers, they need to know. Using pedagogical tricks, small tricks, you can help him cope with the discomfort arising from the inability to concentrate. When giving small assignments, you should generously reward children for successful performance, encouraging even the smallest efforts. During classes, ask to bring chalk or wash a rag so that it helps to discharge the nervous system. The main thing is to find personal contact, because children's love and affection have tremendous power, capable of re-educating even a hooligan. This attitude will save the child from the need to be aggressive in order to protect himself.
The application of all the above methods will bear fruit only with time, with a system approach. In this case, the earlier you start the fight, the more successful the result will be. Hyperactivity in infants can even be seen. They sleep little, shout a lot, constantly on the move, although they still can not walk and crawl. An appeal to specialists will help to make a program for monitoring your child and identify at an early stage the problems that arise. It is still important to immediately identify the correct line of education, so as not to turn a normal child into a hyperactive one.
Children are given to parents to bring up new people, the best. With hyperactive children, this truth is increased tenfold!