To become a person, a child needs to be brought up
To become a man to a child, you need proper upbringing. From the contribution of parents to the personality of the child, the strength and knowledge depends on his entire future fate: lifestyle, thoughts, company choice and the like. First of all, the child needs to bring up moral needs. These include: responsiveness, the ability to act kindly and the "do not do evil to anyone".
The education of children in the family is based on the following principles
- Do not forget and do not hesitate to show your love in a relationship with your child.
- Do not resort to force in the process of education, otherwise the child may get the impression that everything in life can be achieved with the help of force.
- Always fulfill the promises given to the child, then you will not lose the trust of your child.
- In order that the crumb did not lose confidence in himself and his forces, you should not scold and punish him for every bad deed, you can sometimes just give an assessment of the situation and suggest how the kid should behave in it.
- Do not abuse the child in the presence of strangers so that he does not feel humiliated.
- The kid should feel part of the family, do everything possible for this.
- Monitor and, if necessary, adjust the environment of your crumbs, because it's not a secret for anyone that hostility breeds hostility, and politeness is respect, and so on.
Child up to 1 year
The kid, having appeared in the world, only learns to understand our world, every day he learns something new. He is defenseless, and therefore at this age, like no one else needs his parents. A child does not understand much, but he perfectly feels the kindness and care of close people. All that he needs in this period of his life is to be sure that his mother and father love him. The baby takes all the time parents and requires a lot of physical strength, but despite the fatigue, it is important to keep the warm atmosphere in your nest so that the crumb was comfortable to develop and to know the adult world.
Child from year to 5 years
Children of this age are particularly curious and inquisitive, they absorb all information like a sponge. The child is already sufficiently developed physically, is able to express his opinion and attitude to one or anothersubject or action. These kids often ask questions, and parents need to patience and calmly answer them, without exception, even if the kid asks the same questions several times. In this period of development, their environment changes, in addition to mom and dad, the child increasingly communicates with children in the courtyard and kindergarten. You will notice that your child has his favorite cartoons, songs and classes. The main thing is to become a person, the child needs to explain everything that happens and interests him from the point of view of morality, that is, to tell and teach what is "good" and what is "bad".
Child 6-7 years old
Your child enters a new period of his life - he goes to school. Now your child begins to realize that he has his duties, and, of course, the recent crumb, who was always playing and having fun, it will be difficult to reconcile with it. The parents' task is to explain to the child all the importance and necessity of the educational process, at first to pay much attention to joint performance of homework assignments, do not leave him alone with possible difficulties, he should feel that there is not one, and then getting used to school and the appearance of duties will pass less painfully. Preschool education of children should not lie only on the shoulders of educators in kindergarten, parents are obliged to make a significant contribution to the upbringing of their child. Do it so that the child can easily give all the beginnings in school.
Factors influencing the upbringing of the child
Absolutely any factors from the world around us can influence the development and upbringing of the child, so the task of mom and dad is to protect him from the impact of negative factors as much as possible and instill in the character good qualities and morals. None of the parents will ever manage to save their child from such phenomena of our life as envy, anger, betrayal, lies and so on. But the upbringing of children in the family should equip them with knowledge and algorithms of correct behavior in this or that situation. In other words, parents should prepare a little man for adulthood.
The main factors influencing the child's development are family relations and the process of upbringing. To become a person, a child needs to see a harmonious, warm relationship between members of his family. This factor has a strong impact on the baby, because he begins to feel the atmosphere inside the family, while still in the womb. When forming the elements of the process itself, it is necessary to take into account the characteristics of the upbringing of children It is worth considering that the impact on the worldview of the child is not only his closest relatives, but also peers, educators in the kindergarten. However, the most important task of parents should be the inculcation of values and the right position, on the basis of which the child's character will be formed, thanks to the knowledge embedded in it, he will easily be guided in all life situations.
It is necessary to specify in advance the points concerning the upbringing of your child with grandparents, otherwise the kid can begin to perceive them as "good" because he will be allowed everything, and the parents as "bad", because only they are engaged in his upbringing, they forbid something, blamed something. For example, a kid should understand that there are a lot of sweets - it's harmful, and not that the mother feels sorry for her, but her grandmother does not. If your parents do not compromise, then you can threaten with a restriction in communication with your grandson, because it is still primarily your child and you are responsible for his upbringing. But do not be too strict with grandmothers and grandfathers, because you yourself sometimes want to pamper your child.
To become a person, a child needs a lot. In the upbringing of children there is nothing impossible and supernatural, more kindness, patience and affection, and you will succeed.