What can scenes for children help parents
Young parents today have always been tormented by the same problem. This problem has two interrelated planes: 1) what to do with the baby, so as not to interfere with doing household chores and rest, and 2) how to do it, so that he does not feel abandoned and unloved with all the resulting psychological problems. For even the wisest Solomon used to say: "The rod and reproof give wisdom; but a child left in neglect makes a shame to his mother. " The rod is not our method, although if you look around your friends and acquaintances, you will surely find a family where the physically punished children are more attached to their parents than in those families wherespanking is excluded as a defect of education. But it’s not about that today. The thing is that children abandoned by their parents will inevitably make “shame to their mother” one day.
Therefore, between children and children, it is necessary to seek the benefit of children. Such that not to the detriment of deeds. Have you tried to use sketches for children as a means to achieve this goal? Invented this tool is not today or even yesterday. Well it is that it does not require special financial and time costs, develops imagination, creative thought of the child and parent, brings one to another, allows one to better understand one another and vice versa. And there are a lot of pluses for a simple action called "sketches for children."
Begin to teach the child to this game better directly from the cradle. Primitive, but very useful sketch for children is compatible with gymnastics. Do or make with a small gymnastics, name all movements: "It caterpillar creeps. Oh, what a caterpillar we have! "," The butterfly wings with wings. What a beautiful butterfly, how she can wiggle wings! "," The tree grows high and high. And now the tree is breezing. " And it is almost unimportant that some movements do not at all resemble what mother calls, it's even better: we do not allow stereotypes to master the thinking of our child.
When there comes a difficult period associated with the fact that the child rose to his feet and receivedmuch more spatial freedom than before, and the opportunity for dramatization also expands. It can be scenes for children in the form of puppet theater performances. There is no need for spectators, here all the participants. For example, the finger theater will be very useful at this age. It is not so difficult to think up funny sketches for children of this age. Let the kid cling to his mother's fingers, "dressed" in dolls, and my mother will explain, emotionally and colorfully, what he is doing now: "Vanechka wants to get acquainted with Toshi. "Hello, Tosha," says Vanechka. "Aw-av," Tosha answers. "
This story with the acquaintance of Vanechka and Toshi can be repeated without complicating the fact that nothing else is invented, and that, it seems to us, this is not so ridiculous, a thousand times. This is absolutely not terrible, one-year-olds love repetitions, they are asserted as a person in the repetition of one or another action.
You will see this when, after six months - a year, he will force you to do the same thing a thousand times. In two or three years, the scenarios of your theatrical miniatures can already be much more extensive. If the mother or father does not have the creative powers to invent something on their own (although it's easy - just remember that today was a walk, for example, and add a little color to it), then at their disposal is the work of children's writers . And not just children's. Perfectly mocked, for example, slightly forgotten by this generation of Mayakovsky's poem "What is good and what is bad."
Better yet, what is "good" and what is "bad" the Bible explains. There is something to stage there. In three years, children are already able to assess the action. First with parents' tips, and then independently. Better than a Bible, no book teaches you to think carefully about the motives of a person's behavior. Later, when the child has already learned how to think independently, it will be easier for him to choose between "good" and "bad". Not to mention the fact that evenings spent by the family together, games and skits for children are priceless in terms of quantity and quality of happiness.